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Japanese · Love & Heartbreak

チャラ男

chara-o

CHAH-rah-oh · /tɕaɾao/

Player / fuckboy / smooth-talking flirt

2/5 Bar-safe

coarse but friendly; fine among acquaintances

Literally

"flippant guy (chara + otoko)"

Word-for-word — which is rarely what it means.

How to use it

The flashy, flirty, all-talk guy — dyed hair, smooth lines, no substance, hitting on everyone. From "charai" (flippant, superficial). The female counterpart is "chara-onna." Not a hard slur, more a dismissive character type, but nobody wants "chara-o" attached to their reputation.

Heard in the wild

あいつ完全にチャラ男だから気をつけな。

That guy's a total player — watch yourself.

Where it lands

Nationwide

Quick answers

What does "チャラ男" mean?
In Japanese, "チャラ男" means "Player / fuckboy / smooth-talking flirt". Literally it's "flippant guy (chara + otoko)". The flashy, flirty, all-talk guy — dyed hair, smooth lines, no substance, hitting on everyone. From "charai" (flippant, superficial). The female counterpart is "chara-onna." Not a hard slur, more a dismissive character type, but nobody wants "chara-o" attached to their reputation.
Is "チャラ男" offensive?
It's on the mild end — 2/5 (Bar-safe) on the Punch-o-Meter. coarse but friendly; fine among acquaintances.
How do you pronounce "チャラ男"?
Say it "CHAH-rah-oh" — capitals mark the stressed syllable. In IPA: tɕaɾao.

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