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오빠

oppa

OH-ppah · /o.p͈a/

Oppa — older brother, boyfriend, crush, or K-pop idol, depending on who's saying it to whom.

1/5 Grandma-safe

mild, playful; fine on daytime TV

Literally

"a female's older brother"

Word-for-word — which is rarely what it means.

How to use it

The most freighted kinship word in Korea. Technically it's what a woman calls an older brother — but it extends to older male friends, boyfriends (most couples run on it), and idols on stage. The romance is in the deployment: a woman switching from a man's name to 오빠 is a plot point in every K-drama for a reason. Female speakers only — a man saying 오빠 is a joke; the male-speaker equivalent for an older woman is 누나 (nuna), its own flirtation minefield ("누나~" has launched a thousand dramas). Foreign women should know it comes with signal attached: calling a Korean man 오빠 registers as warmth at minimum.

Heard in the wild

오빠, 이것 좀 들어줘.

Oppa, carry this for me?

Where it lands

South Korea (universal); female speakers to older males only

Quick answers

What does "오빠" mean?
In Korean, "오빠" means "Oppa — older brother, boyfriend, crush, or K-pop idol, depending on who's saying it to whom.". Literally it's "a female's older brother". The most freighted kinship word in Korea. Technically it's what a woman calls an older brother — but it extends to older male friends, boyfriends (most couples run on it), and idols on stage. The romance is in the deployment: a woman switching from a man's name to 오빠 is a plot point in every K-drama for a reason. Female speakers only — a man saying 오빠 is a joke; the male-speaker equivalent for an older woman is 누나 (nuna), its own flirtation minefield ("누나~" has launched a thousand dramas). Foreign women should know it comes with signal attached: calling a Korean man 오빠 registers as warmth at minimum.
Is "오빠" offensive?
It's on the mild end — 1/5 (Grandma-safe) on the Punch-o-Meter. mild, playful; fine on daytime TV.
How do you pronounce "오빠"?
Say it "OH-ppah" — capitals mark the stressed syllable. In IPA: o.p͈a.

Related in Korean

자기야 jagiya jah-gee-YAH Babe / honey — the default couple's call sign. 애교 aegyo EH-gyoh Aegyo — weaponized cuteness: the baby voice, the pout, the wobble. 밀당 mildang meel-DAHNG The push-and-pull game — calibrated hot-and-cold flirtation. 죽을래? jugeullae joo-GEUL-leh You wanna die? — 90% playful threat, 10% actual threat, tone decides. 인마 inma een-MAH You punk / kid — gruff, senior-to-junior, drama-dad certified. 자식 jasik jah-SHEEK This kid… / you rascal — the gruff-fond word for someone junior.

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