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frajer

FRY-ehr · /ˈfra.jɛr/

Sucker / mug / mark — someone who lets himself be played.

3/5 Watch your audience

genuinely rude; friends only, never at work

Literally

"sucker (from German 'Freier')"

Word-for-word — which is rarely what it means.

How to use it

A German borrowing sharpened in Polish street and prison culture: a frajer isn't stupid, he's soft — the man who pays full price, waits his turn, and gets used. In ordinary banter it's a moderate jab ("ale frajer, uwierzył" — what a mug, he believed it), but in tougher circles it's a serious status accusation, one of the worst things one man can call another. Watch-your-audience 3, and calibrate the audience carefully — the word gets heavier as the company does.

Heard in the wild

Zapłaciłeś z góry? Ale z ciebie frajer.

You paid up front? You absolute mug.

Where it lands

Poland (universal); heaviest in street/prison register

Quick answers

What does "frajer" mean?
In Polish, "frajer" means "Sucker / mug / mark — someone who lets himself be played.". Literally it's "sucker (from German 'Freier')". A German borrowing sharpened in Polish street and prison culture: a frajer isn't stupid, he's soft — the man who pays full price, waits his turn, and gets used. In ordinary banter it's a moderate jab ("ale frajer, uwierzył" — what a mug, he believed it), but in tougher circles it's a serious status accusation, one of the worst things one man can call another. Watch-your-audience 3, and calibrate the audience carefully — the word gets heavier as the company does.
Is "frajer" offensive?
It's genuinely rude — a 3/5 (Watch your audience) on the Punch-o-Meter. Fine among friends, never at work or with people you've just met.
How do you pronounce "frajer"?
Say it "FRY-ehr" — capitals mark the stressed syllable. In IPA: ˈfra.jɛr.

Related in Polish

skurwysyn skoor-VIH-sin Son of a bitch — a hard, aimed insult with the kurwa root inside. ty kurwo tih KOOR-voh You whore / you bitch — the aimed kurwa, a different animal entirely. debil DEH-beel Moron / idiot — the standard hard 'you idiot.' baran BAH-rahn Idiot / blockhead — the barnyard 'you idiot.' dupek DOO-pek Asshole / jerk — an unpleasant, self-important man. chuj KHOOY Dick / prick — the anatomical heavy hitter, and a productive root of its own.

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