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μαλάκας

malákas

mah-LAH-kahss · /maˈla.kas/

Asshole / idiot — OR — dude / mate. The single most important word in Greek.

3/5 Watch your audience

genuinely rude; friends only, never at work

Literally

"wanker (one who masturbates)"

Word-for-word — which is rarely what it means.

How to use it

This is THE calibration lesson of Greek, so learn it before anything else. Literally "wanker," malákas swings the entire distance from a fighting-words insult to the warmest thing one friend calls another — and tone plus context, not the word, decides which. Snarled at a stranger who cut you off: a real insult, worth a 3, edging to 4. Said with a grin to your best friend across a taverna table ("ρε μαλάκα, άκου φάση") it means roughly "dude, listen to this" and carries actual affection. Greek men use it as conversational punctuation the way English uses "like." The trap for foreigners: you WILL hear locals fling it around lovingly and assume it's harmless — then use it on the wrong person in the wrong tone and start something. When in doubt, don't deploy it at anyone you wouldn't hug. The vocative is μαλάκα (maláka); the plural/general is μαλάκες.

Heard in the wild

Ρε μαλάκα, πού ήσουν; Σε έψαχνα δύο ώρες!

Dude, where were you? I've been looking for you for two hours!

Where it lands

Greece & Cyprus (universal); the load-bearing word of the language

Quick answers

What does "μαλάκας" mean?
In Greek, "μαλάκας" means "Asshole / idiot — OR — dude / mate. The single most important word in Greek.". Literally it's "wanker (one who masturbates)". This is THE calibration lesson of Greek, so learn it before anything else. Literally "wanker," malákas swings the entire distance from a fighting-words insult to the warmest thing one friend calls another — and tone plus context, not the word, decides which. Snarled at a stranger who cut you off: a real insult, worth a 3, edging to 4. Said with a grin to your best friend across a taverna table ("ρε μαλάκα, άκου φάση") it means roughly "dude, listen to this" and carries actual affection. Greek men use it as conversational punctuation the way English uses "like." The trap for foreigners: you WILL hear locals fling it around lovingly and assume it's harmless — then use it on the wrong person in the wrong tone and start something. When in doubt, don't deploy it at anyone you wouldn't hug. The vocative is μαλάκα (maláka); the plural/general is μαλάκες.
Is "μαλάκας" offensive?
It's genuinely rude — a 3/5 (Watch your audience) on the Punch-o-Meter. Fine among friends, never at work or with people you've just met.
How do you pronounce "μαλάκας"?
Say it "mah-LAH-kahss" — capitals mark the stressed syllable. In IPA: maˈla.kas.

Related in Greek

The same idea, elsewhere

Via concepts like "You idiot".

how to say "You idiot" →

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