Turkish · Rejection & Catcalls
Laf atma!
LAHF at-MAH · /ɫaf atˈma/
Quit catcalling / stop making comments
genuinely rude; friends only, never at work
Literally
"Don't throw words"
Word-for-word — which is rarely what it means.
How to use it
"Laf atmak" is the street harassment Turkish has a precise verb for — men lobbing "comments" at women passing by. "Laf atma!" is the sharp shut-it-down; useful to recognize and, for men, a thing never to do. This entry is here so you understand the dynamic and can name it, not so you practice the catcall. A firm "rahat bırak beni" (leave me alone) belongs in the same toolkit.
Heard in the wild
Laf atıp durma, rahat bırak beni!
Stop with the comments — leave me alone!
Where it lands
Turkey-wide; urban streets
Quick answers
- What does "Laf atma!" mean?
- In Turkish, "Laf atma!" means "Quit catcalling / stop making comments". Literally it's "Don't throw words". "Laf atmak" is the street harassment Turkish has a precise verb for — men lobbing "comments" at women passing by. "Laf atma!" is the sharp shut-it-down; useful to recognize and, for men, a thing never to do. This entry is here so you understand the dynamic and can name it, not so you practice the catcall. A firm "rahat bırak beni" (leave me alone) belongs in the same toolkit.
- Is "Laf atma!" offensive?
- It's genuinely rude — a 3/5 (Watch your audience) on the Punch-o-Meter. Fine among friends, never at work or with people you've just met.
- How do you pronounce "Laf atma!"?
- Say it "LAHF at-MAH" — capitals mark the stressed syllable. In IPA: ɫaf atˈma.
Related in Turkish
The same idea, elsewhere
Via concepts like "Get lost".
- French Casse-toi, pauvre con ! Get lost, you pathetic idiot
- German Hau ab! Get lost! / Clear off! / Beat it!
- Greek άντε γαμήσου Go fuck yourself / get lost / piss off.
- Italian Vaffanculo! Fuck off! / Go to hell!
- Japanese 死ね Drop dead / go die
- Korean 꺼져 Get lost / piss off — you're telling a human to power down.
- Polish spierdalaj Fuck off / piss off.
- Portuguese Vagabundo Bum / lowlife / good-for-nothing (f. 'vagabunda' = slut)
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