Is "Ma che dici?!" offensive?

It's on the mild end — 1/5 (Grandma-safe) on the Punch-o-Meter. mild, playful; fine on daytime TV.

How do you pronounce "Ma che dici?!"?

This one's a hand gesture — there's nothing to pronounce. Both palms pressed together as in prayer, shaken toward the other person.

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Italian · Hand Gestures · hand gesture

Ma che dici?!

What on earth are you saying?! / I beg you, be reasonable!

1/5 Grandma-safe

mild, playful; fine on daytime TV

The gesture

"Both palms pressed together as in prayer, shaken toward the other person"

What your hand is actually doing.

How to use it

The prayer-hands of exasperation — pressed together and rocked at someone talking nonsense, it means "for the love of God, listen to yourself." Completely inoffensive and wildly expressive; combined with the right pained face it's the essence of Italian debate. Pairs naturally with the pinched-fingers gesture.

Heard in the wild

[prayer hands] Ma ti rendi conto di cosa dici?

[prayer hands] Do you even hear yourself?

Where it lands

Universal across Italy

Quick answers

What does "Ma che dici?!" mean?: In Italian, "Ma che dici?!" means "What on earth are you saying?! / I beg you, be reasonable!". Literally it's "Both palms pressed together as in prayer, shaken toward the other person". The prayer-hands of exasperation — pressed together and rocked at someone talking nonsense, it means "for the love of God, listen to yourself." Completely inoffensive and wildly expressive; combined with the right pained face it's the essence of Italian debate. Pairs naturally with the pinched-fingers gesture.
Is "Ma che dici?!" offensive?: It's on the mild end — 1/5 (Grandma-safe) on the Punch-o-Meter. mild, playful; fine on daytime TV.
How do you pronounce "Ma che dici?!"?: This one's a hand gesture — there's nothing to pronounce. Both palms pressed together as in prayer, shaken toward the other person.

Related in Italian

Ma che vuoi? gesture What do you want?! / What are you saying?! / Come on! Le corna gesture Your partner's cheating on you / cuckold (as an insult) Fare le corna (scaramanzia) gesture Touch wood / knock on wood / ward off the evil eye L'ombrello gesture Up yours! / Vaffanculo, in gesture form Il dito medio gesture Fuck you / flip the bird Il gesto del mento gesture I couldn't care less / get lost / nothing

The same idea, elsewhere

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