Portuguese · Frustration & Despair
Foda-se!
FOH-dah-see · /ˈfɔ.da.si/
Fuck it! / Who cares! / Whatever!
aimed at a person, will start something
Literally
"Fuck itself"
Word-for-word — which is rarely what it means.
How to use it
Defiant "I don't give a fuck." "Foda-se o que pensam" ("fuck what they think"). Important regional note: in Portugal "foda-se!" is a top-tier general exclamation of shock/anger (like Brazil's "puta que pariu"), used constantly; in Brazil it leans more toward "I don't care." Rude in both. Softer: "foda-se" → "que se dane."
Heard in the wild
Não fui convidado? Foda-se, vou fazer meu próprio rolê.
I wasn't invited? Fuck it, I'll throw my own party.
Where it lands
Brazil ('I don't care'); Portugal (general exclamation of anger/shock — heavier use).
Quick answers
- What does "Foda-se!" mean?
- In Portuguese, "Foda-se!" means "Fuck it! / Who cares! / Whatever!". Literally it's "Fuck itself". Defiant "I don't give a fuck." "Foda-se o que pensam" ("fuck what they think"). Important regional note: in Portugal "foda-se!" is a top-tier general exclamation of shock/anger (like Brazil's "puta que pariu"), used constantly; in Brazil it leans more toward "I don't care." Rude in both. Softer: "foda-se" → "que se dane."
- Is "Foda-se!" offensive?
- Yes — very. It rates 4/5 on the Punch-o-Meter (Fighting words). aimed at a person, will start something. Read the usage note before you even think about it.
- How do you pronounce "Foda-se!"?
- Say it "FOH-dah-see" — capitals mark the stressed syllable. In IPA: ˈfɔ.da.si.
Related in Portuguese
The same idea, elsewhere
Via concepts like "Screw you".
- French Enculé ! Motherf***er / bastard (one of the hardest personal insults)
- German Verpiss dich! Piss off! / Clear off (with force)!
- Greek άντε γαμήσου Go fuck yourself / get lost / piss off.
- Italian Vaffanculo! Fuck off! / Go to hell!
- Japanese クソ野郎 Piece of shit / shitty bastard
- Korean 개새끼 Son of a bitch / bastard — a real insult with no soft reading.
- Polish ty kurwo You whore / you bitch — the aimed kurwa, a different animal entirely.
- Russian Средний палец Screw you / the finger
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